Sunday, May 3rd, 2009
My mother is an amazing woman. Almost everyone says that about their own mother. I guess that’s why we have “Mother’s Day.”
To shine a little light on them.
My mother was a part-time accountant (for my father’s electrical business), counselor, homemaker, retailer, coach, and artist. She did a little of everything and basically kept our house together.
I was a mama’s boy. Growing up I always turned to my mom when I needed advice, so her work habits rubbed off on me.
Here are my 28 Lessons on Working Happy from My Icelandic Mother:
- Make other people laugh; it feels good.
- Be honest and you will have nothing to hide.
- Ask people what they need; you’ll actually help them.
- Chip away at a project every single day and you will succeed.
- Don’t settle for second best. (If she knew all I could manage was a C in a certain course that was ok, but if I got a B and should have earned an A, she wouldn’t accept it.)
- Be yourself, even if it means someone else doesn’t like you.
- Talk to everyone; you’ll learn something from each person.
- Listening is more important than speaking.
- Share your pain, but try to leave on a positive note.
- Keep trying new angles until you feel good about the finished project.
- Sleep is nice, but it’s not the most important part of life.
- Who you spend time with is a reflection of who you are. (Pick your friends wisely because they will dictate your success)
- Share your intelligence.
- Organizing your mind will encourage you to organize your workspace.
- Don’t beat yourself up for a mistake that was probably meant to teach you a lesson.
- Guests may be coming soon, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun preparing the food.
- You have to put in the time to get to where you want to be. (Short cuts means something was missed)
- Don’t try to be normal because we are all weird. (Your weirdness is what people remember)
- Say “no” when necessary.
- Learn to do it yourself so you can teach someone else to help you.
- Lunch breaks, when done right, can recharge the battery.
- You can’t control everything, so learn to steer the ship instead of tug it.
- Use your mind, not your back.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for a raise if you deserve it.
- Get to know the people you work with; they will help you grow.
- Anger only makes the situation worse; let it go then make your choice.
- Don’t hang out with cool people, hang out with interesting people.
- Push people to their edge then pull back before anyone gets hurt. (I pushed my mom to the edge, but she was always the one steering the ship)
What have you learned from your mother?
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