It’s no secret that the more successful a person is, the more confident that person is also. For instance if you can adopt confidence ( and i believe we’re all capable of enhancing this internal power ) then you will adopt success with it, as your success grows then so does your confidence, both feed each other and that is were the fruit blooms.

Training your internal confidence is easier said than done and contains tapping the attributes of your personality. Be honest with yourself, find your low points and work on them, practice communcation with others and remain positive.

Confidence does’nt come overnight, but it does come.

Sometimes people – like your boss when you came out of college – behave in a way that hurts others because they have issues .. but often times they don’t mean it and they will say something that wasn’t even meant to hurt.

I think it’s important to keep that in mind and not judge them on the fact that their words were hurtful. Why? Because we might do the same without even knowing.

We judge ourselves by our intentions but we judge others by their behavior

Ridiculous.

And I enjoyed, very much – the outtake up above! (as well as the “real” one at the top)

I think of reactions as input. I can choose whether to accept it, reject it, or find what is useful. At the end of the day, I measure against effectiveness.